Hi Orly – I thought about calling my ex on Sunday night, just after our session, but ever since I broke up with him 3 weeks ago, we never talked. On the phone (per my request) so I felt awkward to call and tell him about my past life experience without any “warm up” communications in between, so I sent him an email instead, asking him whether he would like to hang out sometime.
He responded to my email positively on this Monday and said he missed me and wanted to see me soon too. We had our first phone conversation on this Monday night and I told him briefly about my regression with you (him being the knight and me being the baker’s daughter). I told him that now I’m convinced that we met in this life so that I could teach him about self confidence and he could teach me about faith.
He said he wouldn’t doubt it. We scheduled to meet for the first time this weekend ever since we broke up. I’m still nervous about it and feel sad about not having him as my boyfriend anymore. However, after I experienced my French past life, it became easier each day for me to keep things in perspective.
I actually reflected on all my ex’s and started seeing them as great teachers/soulmates that God sent to me in this life in order to nurture my soul. That feeling really helped me let go a lot of hurt, pain and hatred…I still don’t know how things will go between me and D. from this point on. I never stay friends with any of my ex’s and my friends are all skeptical about my decision to hang out with him as a friend now (they call it an “half-assed” relationship that he keeps with me…sigh).
It’s hard to explain to everyone how the past life experience changed me and I have to admit that the love feelings are still there from me towards him so I will just have to take a step at a time and see how things go. Food for thought-
I was absolutely astonished by your teaching of love and how it happens between two individuals. It helped me to switch the whole focus onto myself instead of the other person. I felt so empowered to know that I have everything I desire from the person I love and they’re just a mirror for me to see what’s been repressed within me. Therefore, instead of craving for their attention and supply, I should learn how to draw it from within, and feel whole as an individual and be madly in love with myself. This concept literally changed my world…You R-O-C-K, Orly!!!
I also did research on the past life experiences and even found one episode on Oprah in 2008. It seems that some people have way more vivid and powerful experiences than mine. To be honest, maybe because it was the first time I did it, I’m still not sure whether what I saw was my past life or images I collected from what I see in this world and made sense of them to help myself feel better or not…However, what I care at this point is-I went to you for healing and I felt healed afterwards. That’s more important than anything else to me now. You’re truly an amazing healer, Orly, and thank you for your great work!!!
Thank you very much again for your time, patience and amazing work with me. I do really appreciate it and please feel free to contact me or do any follow up…=) Sincerely,
L. N.
Hi again Orly, Thank you for your reminder. You’re right. I do remember you mentioning the “balance” concept and how that should be our ultimate goal. =) D. and I hung out this past weekend and it went very well. He remained respectful and truthful in terms of our transition to friendships. We had our awkward moments but we talked about them and laughed about them together to help each other with the transition.
Since the past life experience really put me in a healthier perspective, I was able to remain close to him and yet see why we’re not right for each other as a couple (at least not this life around…=P). In terms of dating, I think it’s time for me to start paying more attention to my own growth and change and really focus on nurturing and creating myself. The time I spent with you really changed a lot of my views on life and relationships in general.
More importantly, it helped me realize that the most important relationship I should build and nurture is the one I have with myself…If everything is really planned before we were born, Mr. Right will find me and before that happens, I want to devote myself to the most lovable person in my life-myself.=) Thank you very much for your time and the experience again, Orly! I’m truly glad that I went to see you…
Stay inspired & Search within,
L.N. Lawyer, Pasadena