”I’m afraid I’ll never get married.” Sam said. She’s a 26 years old high school teacher, attractive and sweet. I asked her to tell me about her relationship pattern with men.
“We date for a while, we like each other, but after a couple of months, somehow the relationship fades away. I feel I can’t establish a deeper emotional connection than just dating. Then another man comes along and it starts all over again.”
I asked her to take a few deep healing breaths to her belly, relax her body, and go down a flight of stairs. At the bottom of the stairs, behind the closed door, awaits her former life that will shed some light on her current situation.
“This is so pretty! Everybody is dressed up. Lace and fancy hats! It’s a church!” she said excitedly. “What year is it and which country?” I interrupted.
“England, 1856. I’m getting married!” she continued. “Congratulations! Who is the groom?” I asked curiously. “John. He’s tall and blonde. He’s 28 and I’m 26. Our parents matched us up” she explained.
“Do you like him? Does he treat you right?” I inquired. “He’s all right. He doesn’t beat me up or anything” she answered. “Let’s go to an important scene” She took a breath.
“I’m getting into the bedroom, and I see John in bed with another woman” she paused. “What do you do?” I asked. “I leave the room” she replied.
“Don’t you cry, yell at him?” I tried to get emotional response. “No. I just leave the room”.
I knew she was shocked, so she shut off her emotions. “What does John do?” I asked. “He chases me, apologizing” she said sadly, reflecting her deep emotional trauma.
“Do you accept his apology?” I ask. “Yes” she replied. “I move on”. “In reference to the time of your wedding, where are we on the time line?” I inquired, thinking many men cheat as the passion fades away.
”2 weeks BEFORE our wedding” she said, her eyes beaming with tears. There was a long silence. We were both shocked. …
”And you married him anyways?” I asked. “Yes” she replied coldly.
“What did you learn to your present life?” I asked. “You can’t trust men. They cheat” she answered right away.
We did retro – healing and she forgave John (who’s her boyfriend Greg). “Wow” she said as she came back, “I can’t believe that my fear of marriage origins from an English life 150 years ago!”
Sue called me about 7 months later. “Since that day I had the past life regression with you, my whole perspective changed. As If I could see Greg in a totally different light. I’m so happy with him. We intend to get married next fall! I’ll invite you to celebrate with us!” She said excitedly. Thank you very much, Sue, wishing you all the best, in this life and the next ones …
